Effective Leadership Really Means This One Thing

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I talk about effective leadership a lot. But what does that mean? What does it take to be an effective leader? Because I help leaders who are already effective become highly effective (and because I’ve been coaching executives for almost 40 years!), I can tell you the answer. Effective leadership is dependent on self-awareness. The…

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What Happens When You Suffer from Burnout

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Burnout is a term that is thrown around a bit too much, making it easy to forget how serious true burnout is. Burnout is a horrible experience. I know, because I am recovering from it. What is burnout? Burnout is a state of complete physical, mental, and emotional exhaustion that’s caused by repeated, excessive stress,…

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How to Show Empathy in Leadership

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I have been studying and talking about empathy in leadership for decades. It is not a new term or topic, but it is sorely needed in today’s fractured world.  What is empathy? Empathy is the ability to notice other people’s feelings and just be there for them.  Showing empathy doesn’t require you to experience what…

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How to Ensure Accurate EQ Testing Scores

Ensure Accurate EQ Testing Scores

If you do a Google search for emotional intelligence assessments, you will find plenty to choose from. Many you can do yourself, and those are usually free. But when it comes to EQ testing, self-assessments are missing one key element that impacts the accuracy of your score.   (To clarify: EQ stands for emotional quotient, a…

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Why Bother Working with a Certified Leadership Coach?

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Anyone can declare themselves a leadership coach. But do you know the difference between a coach and a certified leadership coach? Most people do not.  Working with a coach is like trusting a first year medical student to perform knee replacement surgery. They may have some knowledge of what to do, but they are not…

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How Emotional Intelligence Skills Strengthen Your Leadership

How Emotional Intelligence Skills Strengthen Your Leadership

Emotional intelligence skills benefit everything you do, every day. It’s why I write and talk about it so often, and why I have been coaching leaders for more than 30 years on how to increase their emotional intelligence.  Emotional intelligence (EI) is the ability to know what emotions you’re feeling in the moment, being able…

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5 Life-Changing Leadership Books

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Like many leaders, I have read many, many books over the years to learn new strategies and mindsets for being an even more effective leader. Of all the books on my shelf, these five leadership books are the ones I turn to most often. 5 leadership books that have made the biggest impact I have…

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How to Lead During Nonstop Uncertainty

Leadership in uncertain times

For the past few months, leaders around the world have faced geopolitical and economic uncertainty. They are being asked to pivot quickly, sometimes multiple times in one week. Leadership in uncertain times is taxing, to say the least. This year reminds me of the early days of the COVID-19 pandemic. It was a humbling experience…

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